Kusudzulana kumaphatikizapo zambiri
Miyezo yakusudzulana imakhala ndi magawo angapo. Ndi njira ziti zomwe muyenera kutengera zimadalira ngati muli ndi ana komanso ngati mwagwirizana pasadakhale za mgwirizano ndi mnzanu wakale. Mwambiri, njira zotsatirazi ziyenera kutsatidwa. Choyamba, pempho la chisudzulo liyenera kuperekedwa kukhothi. Izi zitha kukhala kugwiritsa ntchito limodzi kapena kugwiritsa ntchito limodzi. Ndi njira yoyamba, mnzake amangopempha pempholo. Ngati pempho logwirizana laperekedwa, inu ndi mnzanu wakale mupereke pempholo ndipo muvomereze zonse zomwe zakonzedwa. Mutha kukhala ndi mapangano awa omwe akhazikitsidwa pangano la chisudzulo ndi mkhalapakati kapena loya. Zikatero sipadzamveka khoti, koma mudzalandira chisankho cha kusudzulana. Mukalandira chisankho chakusudzulana mutha kukhala ndi chikalata chosiya ntchito cholembedwa ndi loya. Chikalata chosiya ntchito ndikulengeza kuti mwazindikira chigamulo chakusudzulana chomwe khothi lalamula komanso kuti simupereka chigamulo chotsutsana ndi chigamulochi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti atha kulembetsa kuboma nthawi yomweyo. Mudzasudzulidwa kokha malinga ndi lamuloli pomwe chigamulochi chalowetsedwa m'mabuku a boma. Malingana ngati lingaliro la chisudzulo silinalembetsedwe, mudakwatirana mwalamulo.
Khothi litapereka chigamulo, nthawi yopempha miyezi itatu imayamba. Munthawi imeneyi mutha kupempha kuti musudzule ngati simukugwirizana nazo. Ngati onsewo agwirizana ndi lingaliro la chisudzulo, nthawi iyi ya miyezi 3 itha kuchedwa. Izi ndichifukwa choti chigamulo cha khotilo chitha kulembetsa pokhapokha chigamulo chikakhala chomaliza. Chigamulo chimangokhala chomaliza pokhapokha nthawi yopempha miyezi itatu itatha. Komabe, ngati onse awiri asaina pangano loti atule pansi udindo, onse ataya apilo. Maphwando 'amasiya' kuweruza kwa khothi. Chiweruzocho ndiye chomaliza ndipo chitha kulembetsa osadikirira miyezi itatu. Ngati simukugwirizana ndi lingaliro la chisudzulo, ndikofunikira kuti musasaine chikalata chosiya ntchito. Kusayina chikalatacho sikofunikira. Khothi litapereka chigamulo pali zotsatirazi pankhani yosiya ntchito:
- Onsewa asayina chosiya ntchito:
Potero, maphwandowo akuwonetsa kuti sakufuna kupanga apilo zotsutsana ndi chisankho cha chisudzulo. Pankhaniyi, nthawi yopempha ya miyezi itatu imatha ndipo milandu yakusudzulana imafulumira. Chisudzulocho chitha kulembedwa nthawi yomweyo m'mabuku a boma. - Chimodzi mwazipani ziwirizi chimasaina, ena satero. Koma sangapemphenso mwina:
Kutheka kwa apilo kumakhalabe kotseguka. Nthawi yoyitanira miyezi itatu iyenera kudikiridwa. Ngati mnzanu wakale (wamtsogolo) sakudandaulabe, chisudzulocho chitha kulembetsedwabe ndi boma pambuyo pa miyezi itatu. - Chimodzi mwazipani ziwirizi chimasaina, gulu lina likupempha:
Poterepa, milanduyi ilowa mgulu latsopano ndipo khothi liziunikanso mlanduwu atapempha. - Palibe maphwando omwe asaina kuti atula pansi udindo, koma maphwandowo sawadandaulanso:
Kumapeto kwa nthawi yochita apilo ya miyezi itatu, inu kapena loya wanu muyenera kutumiza chigamulo chakusudzulana kwa mlembi wa obadwa, maukwati ndi omwalira kuti akalembetse komaliza m'mabuku a boma.
Lamulo la kusudzulana limasinthika pambuyo poti miyezi itatu yakudandaula ithe. Chigamulocho chitasinthidwa, chiyenera kulembedwa munthawi ya miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Ngati chisankho cha chisudzulo sichinalembetsedwe munthawi yake, chigamulocho chimatha ndipo ukwatiwo sungathe!
Nthawi yolekera ikatha, mufunika chikalata chosalemba kuti chisudzulo chilembetsedwe ndi boma. Muyenera kuitanitsa chikalatachi chosagwirizana ndi khothi chomwe chidapereka chigamulo pamlandu wosudzulana. Pachifukwa ichi, khothi likunena kuti maphwando sanapemphe chigamulochi. Chosiyana ndi chikalata chodzichotsera pantchito ndikuti chikalata chosalemba chikupemphedwa kuchokera ku khothi nthawi yoti apemphere ithe, pomwe chikalatacho chiyenera kupangidwa ndi maloya a zipani nthawi yopempha isanathe.
Kuti mumve upangiri ndi chitsogozo pa nthawi ya chisudzulo mutha kulumikizana ndi maloya am'banja a Law & More. At Law & More tikumvetsetsa kuti chisudzulo ndi zomwe zingachitike pambuyo pake zitha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zazikulu pamoyo wanu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake timayandikira. Maloya athu amathanso kukuthandizani pazochitika zilizonse. Maloya ku Law & More ndi akatswiri pankhani yamalamulo pabanja ndipo ali okondwa kukutsogolerani, mwina limodzi ndi mnzanu, muukwati.
