Lumikizanani ndi mwana wanu panthawi yamavuto a Corona

Popeza kuti coronavirus idayambanso ku Netherlands, nkhawa za makolo ambiri zikukula. Monga kholo mutha kupeza mafunso angapo. Kodi mwana wanu amaloledwa kupita kwa wakale wanu? Kodi mungasunge mwana wanu kunyumba ngakhale atakhala ndi amayi kapena abambo sabata ino? Kodi mutha kukakamira kuti muwone ana anu ngati bwenzi lanu lakale likufuna kuwasungira panyumba tsopano chifukwa cha vuto la corona? Izi ndi zochitika zapadera kwa aliyense zomwe sitinakumanepo nazo, chifukwa ichi chimatifunsa mafunso tonsefe popanda mayankho omveka.

Mfundo za lamulo lathu ndikuti mwana ndi kholo ali ndi ufulu woyanjana. Chifukwa chake, makolo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mwayi wogwirizana. Komabe, tikukhala m'nthawi yapadera kwambiri tsopano. Sitinakumanepo ndi zotere ngati izi, chifukwa mulibe mayankho osamveka pa mafunso omwe ali pamwambapa. M'mikhalidwe yomwe ilipo pano ndikofunikira kuyesa zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwa ana anu kutengera kulingalira ndi chilungamo pa zochitika zilizonse.

Lumikizanani ndi mwana wanu panthawi yamavuto a Corona

Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani ndikayimitsidwa kwathunthu ku Netherlands? Kodi makonzedwe omwe agwirizanawo akugwirabe ntchito?
Pakadali pano yankho la funso ili silikudziwikabe. Tikatenga Spain ngati chitsanzo, tikuwona kuti kumeneko (ngakhale kutsekedwa) ndikuloledwa kwa makolo kupitiliza kugwiritsa ntchito makonzedwe ochezera. Chifukwa chake ndizololedwa kuti makolo ku Spain, mwachitsanzo, atenge ana kapena abweretse kwa kholo linalo. Ku Netherlands kulibe malamulo enieni okhudzana ndi makonzedwe azolumikizirana panthawi ya coronavirus.

Kodi coronavirus ndi chifukwa chomveka chololera mwana wanu kupita kwa kholo linalo?
Malinga ndi malangizo a RIVM, aliyense ayenera kukhala kunyumba momwe angathere, pewani kucheza ndi anthu ena ndikukhala mtunda wa mita imodzi ndi theka kuchokera kwa ena. Mungamve kuti simukufuna kulola mwana wanu kupita kwa kholo linalo chifukwa, mwachitsanzo, adakhala pamalo owopsa kapena ali ndi ntchito yachipatala yomwe imawonjezera mwayi wokhala iye kachilombo ka corona.

However, it is not allowed to use the coronavirus as an ‘excuse’ to impede contact between your children and the other parent. Even in this exceptional situation, you are obliged to encourage contact between your children and the other parent as much as possible. However, it is important that you keep each other informed if, for example, your children show symptoms of illness. If it is not possible for you to pick up and bring the children during this special period, you can temporarily agree on alternative ways to let the contact take place as much as possible. For example, you can think of extensive contact via Skype or Facetime.

Kodi mungatani ngati kholo linalo lakana kulumikizana ndi mwana wanu?
In this exceptional period, it is difficult to enforce the contact arrangement, as long as the measures of the RIVM are in force. That is why it is wise to consult with the other parent and determine together what is best for your children’s health, but also for your own health. If mutual consultation does not help you, you can also call in the help of a lawyer. Normally, in such a case an interlocutory procedure could be started in order to enforce the contact through a lawyer. However, the question is whether you can start a procedure for this under the current circumstances. During this exceptional period the courts are closed and only urgent cases are handled. As soon as the measures concerning the coronavirus have been lifted and the other parent continues to frustrate the contact, you can call in a lawyer to enforce the contact. The lawyers of Law & More nditha kukuthandizani munjira iyi! Panthawi ya coronavirus mungathe kulumikizana ndi maloya a Law & More kukambirana ndi bwenzi lanu lakale. Maloya athu atha kuonetsetsa kuti mutha kupeza yankho logwirizana limodzi ndi wokondedwa wanu wakale.

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