Kutha kwa chisudzulo

Kutha kwa banja nthawi zambiri kumayendetsedwa ndi kusagwirizana pakati pa abwenzi. Ngati inu ndi mnzanu mutasiyana ndipo simumagwirizana, mikangano imabuka kuti nthawi zina imatha kufalikira. Kusudzulana nthawi zina kumabweretsa mavuto kwa wina chifukwa cha momwe akumvera. Zikatero, mutha kuyimbira loya kuti apatsidwe ufulu. Adzatha kuyambitsa milandu m'malo mwanu. Komabe, pali mwayi wabwino kuti ana anu, mwachitsanzo, angathe kuvutika kwambiri chifukwa. Kuti mupewe mikanganoyi, mutha kusankhanso chisudzulo pogwiritsa ntchito njira yoyimira pakati. Mwakuchita izi, nthawi zambiri zimatchedwa kulumikizana pakati.

Kutha kwa chisudzulo

Kuyimira pakati ndi chiyani?

Aliyense amene ali ndi mkangano akufuna kuthana naye posachedwa. Nthawi zambiri mkangano umafika kale pamlingo waukulu kotero kuti mbali zonse ziwiri sizikuwonanso yankho. Kuyimira pakati kumatha kusintha izi. Kuyimira pakati ndikoyanjanitsa kwa mkangano mothandizidwa ndi mkhalapakati wosayimira nawo mbali: mkhalapakati. Zambiri pazoyimira pakati zimatha kupezeka kwa ife tsamba loyimira.

Kodi maubwino owerengetsa banja ndi otani?

Kutha kwa banja mosasamala kumatha kubweretsa chisoni ndi kukhumudwa kwa zaka zikubwera. Kuyimilira ndi njira yobwererera yankho lolumikizirana, mwachitsanzo za momwe mungathanirane ndi ana, kugawa ndalama, kugawana alimony ndi mapangano okhudzana ndi penshoni.
Maphwando akabwera ku mgwirizano mu njira yolumikizirana, tidzaphatikizira izi mu mgwirizano wokhazikitsa. Pambuyo pake, mapangano omwe adapangidwa akhoza kuvomerezedwa ndi khothi.

Pa chisudzulo chomwe zipani zimayang'anizana kukhothi, wina mwa maphwando nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi njira yake ndipo winayo ndi wotayika, titero kunena kwake. Kuyimira pakati, palibe otayika. Poyimira pakati, kuyesayesa kumathetsa mavuto limodzi, kuti winayo apambane. Izi ndizofunika kwambiri makamaka ngati maphwando amafunika kuthana wina ndi mnzake kwambiri pambuyo pa chisudzulo. Mwachitsanzo, lingalirani za momwe ana akukhudzidwira. Zikatero, ndikofunika kuti omwe akukhaliranawo amatha kupitilira khomo limodzi limodzi atatha chisudzulo. Ubwino wina wamkhalapakati ndikuti nthawi zambiri zimakhala zotsika mtengo komanso zolemetsa kusiyana ndi milandu yayitali.

Kodi kuyimira pakati kumagwira ntchito bwanji?

Pakukambirana, maphwando amalankhulana wina motsogozedwa ndi mkhalapakati waluso. Mkhalapakati ndi mkhalapakati wodziyimira pawokha yemwe, palimodzi ndi maguluwo, amayang'ana yankho lomwe liri lovomerezeka kwa aliyense. Mkhalapakati samangoyang'ana mbali yalamuloyo, komanso pamavuto aliwonse. Maguluwo amadzakumana ndi yankho, lomwe mkhalapakati amalemba muchigwirizano. Mkhalapakati sapereka lingaliro. Kuyimira pakati kumakhazikitsidwa pakufuna kukwaniritsa mgwirizano limodzi, molimba mtima. Njira yakuyimira pakati imeneyi ndiyabwino kuposa mlandu kukhothi. Tsopano popeza mapanganowo apangidwa limodzi, palinso mwayi wina woti maphwando awatsatira.

Mkhalapakati akuwonetsetsa kuti onse akutha kunena nkhani yawoyomwe komanso kuti wina akumvetsera. Mukamayankhulana ndi mkhalapakati padzakhala chisamaliro chokwanira cha momwe maphwando akumvera. Zomverazo zimafunikira kukambitsirana musanachite mapangano abwino. Kuphatikiza apo, mkhalapakati akuwonetsetsa kuti mapangano omwe maguluwo akuchita ndi olondola mwalamulo.

Masitepe anayi pokambirana

  1. Zoyankhulana. Pakufunsidwa koyamba, mkhalapakati akufotokozera momveka bwino tanthauzo lake. Kenako maphwandowo amasaina mgwirizano wokambirana. Mchigwirizanochi, maphwando amavomereza kuti zokambirana ndizachinsinsi, kuti atenga nawo mbali modzifunira ndipo atenga nawo mbali pazokambirana. Magulu ali ndi ufulu kusiya njira yolumikizirana nthawi iliyonse.
  2. Gawo lothandizananso ndi mavuto. Motsogozedwa ndi mkhalapakati, mkanganowu umawunikidwa mpaka malingaliro onse ndi zokonda zake zimveka.
  3. Gawo lokambirana. Magulu onse awiriwa amabwera kuti athetse mavuto. Amakumbukira kuti yankho lake liyenera kukhala labwino kwa onse. Mwanjira imeneyi, mapangano oyenera amapangidwa.
  4. Pangani nthawi. Woyimira mkhalapakati adzaika mapangano onse papepala, mwachitsanzo, mgwirizano wapakhomo, dongosolo la kulera kapena pangano la chisudzulo. Kenako zimaperekedwa kukhothi kuti zitsimikizidwe.

Kodi mukufunanso kukonza chisudzulo chanu mwa kupanga limodzi? Kapena mukufuna kudziwa ngati kuyimira pakati kungakhale yankho labwino kwa inu? Khalani omasuka kulumikizana ndi ofesi yathu. Tidzakhala okondwa kukuthandizani kusankha chisankhulo.  

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