Alimony ndi cholowa kwa yemwe kale anali wokwatirana naye komanso ana monga chothandizira kusamalira. Yemwe amayenera kulipira alimony amatchulidwanso kuti wamangawa. Wolandila ndalama zamankhwala nthawi zambiri amatchedwa munthu woyenera kusamalira. Alimony ndi ndalama zomwe mumayenera kulipira pafupipafupi. Mwachizolowezi, chisamaliro chimaperekedwa mwezi uliwonse. Muyenera kulipira ngongole ngati muli ndi udindo wosamalira mnzanu wakale kapena mwana wanu. Udindo wokonzanso kwa mnzanu wakale umadza ngati sangakwanitse kudzisamalira. Zinthu zitha kukulepheretsani kulipira ndalama kwa mnzake wakale. Zomwe mumapeza mwina zasintha chifukwa cha mavuto aku Corona. Kodi njira yabwino kwambiri yochitira ndi iti ngati muli ndi udindo wolipira ndalama zomwe simukukumana nazo?
Udindo wokonza
Choyambirira, ndi kwanzeru kulumikizana ndi omwe akukongoletsani ndalama, mnzanu wakale. Mutha kuwadziwitsa kuti ndalama zanu zasintha ndikuti simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa zomwe mukuyenera kuchita. Mutha kuyesa kufikira mgwirizano. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kuvomereza kuti mudzakumana ndi zomwezo pambuyo pake kapena kuti chisamaliro chidzachepetsedwa. Ndikofunika kuti mapanganowa alembedwe. Ngati mukufuna thandizo pa izi, chifukwa mwina simungathe kugwirizana chimodzi, mutha kuyitanitsa mkhalapakati kuti apange mapangano abwino.
Ngati sizotheka kukwaniritsa mgwirizano limodzi, zikuyenera kutsimikiziridwa ngati khothi latsimikiziranso zakusamalira. Izi zikutanthauza kuti udindo wokonzanso wakhazikitsidwa mwalamulo ndi khothi. Ngati udindowo sunatsimikiziridwe, wobwereketsa sangakwanitse kukakamiza kubweza mosavuta. Zikatero, khotilo siligamula mwalamulo mwachindunji. Bungwe lotolera ndalama, monga LBIO (Landelijk Bureau Inning Onderhouddsbijdragen), silingatenge ndalamazo. Ngati ngongoleyo ikukakamizidwa mwalamulo, wobwereketsa ayenera kuchita mwachangu momwe angathere. Yemwe ali woyenera kusamalira amatha kuyambitsa chopereka kuti atenge, mwachitsanzo, ndalama zanu kapena galimoto yanu. Ngati mukufuna kupewa izi, ndibwino kuti mupeze upangiri ku zamalamulo posachedwa.
Pambuyo pake, mkangano wokakamiza ungayambitsidwe mwachidule. Njirayi imadziwikanso kuti ndi njira yachangu. Pochita izi mumapempha woweruzayo kuti alepheretse wobwereketsayo kuti athe kulipira. Momwemo, woweruzayo akuyenera kulemekeza zomwe akuyenera kuchita. Komabe, ngati pangakhale zosowa zachuma zomwe zidachitika pambuyo pa lingaliro lokonza, pakhoza kukhala kugwiritsa ntchito molakwa lamulo. Kupatula pamachitidwe okonza zinthu atha kupangidwa munthawi yapadera. Vuto la Corona lingakhale chifukwa cha izi. Ndibwino kuti izi ziyesedwe ndi loya.
Muthanso kuyesa kusintha chisamaliro. Ngati mukuyembekeza kuti mavuto azachuma atenga nthawi yayitali, ndiye chisankho. Muyenera kuyambitsa njira yosinthira ntchito yokonza. Kuchuluka kwa alimony kungasinthidwe ngati pali 'zosintha zina'. Izi ndi zomwe zimachitika ngati ndalama zomwe mwapeza zasintha kwambiri pambuyo pakuwunika udindo wokonza.
Ulova kapena kubweza ngongole nthawi zambiri sizikhala zachikhalire. Zikatero, woweruzayo akhoza kuchepetsa udindo wanu wosamalira kwakanthawi. Woweruzayo amathanso kusankha kuti simuyenera kulipira chilichonse. Mumasankha kugwira ntchito zochepa kapena kuleka kugwira ntchito? Ndiye ichi ndi chisankho chanu. Woweruzayo sangavomereze kusintha kwa udindo wanu wolipira ndalama za alimony.
Zingakhale choncho kuti mumalipira chithandizo cha ana ndi / kapena kuthandizira okwatirana pomwe woweruza sanakhudzidwepo. Zikatero, mutha kuimitsa kapena kuchepetsa zolipiritsa popanda izi kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zake. Izi ndichifukwa choti mnzanu wakale alibe dzina lokakamiza ndipo sangathe kutenga chilichonse kuti atolere ndikulanda zomwe mwapeza kapena katundu wanu. Zomwe mnzake wakale angachite pankhaniyi, komabe, atha kupempha (kapena akhale ndi chikalata chofunsira) kuti akapemphe kuti mgwirizano wokonzanso ukwaniritsidwe / kuchotsedwa.
Ziribe kanthu ngati khothi lalamula kapena ayi khothi, malangizo athu amakhalabe: osasiya kulipira mwadzidzidzi! Choyamba kambiranani ndi mnzanu wakale. Ngati zokambiranazi sizikubweretsa yankho, mutha kuyambitsa milandu kukhothi.
Kodi muli ndi mafunso okhudzana ndi ndalama zam'mbuyo kapena mukufuna kufunsira, kusintha kapena kuyimitsa chithandizo? Ndiye chonde lemberani Law & More. At Law & More tikumvetsetsa kuti chisudzulo ndi zomwe zingachitike pambuyo pake zitha kukhala ndi zotsatirapo zazikulu pamoyo wanu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake timayandikira. Pamodzi ndi inu mwinanso mwina mnzanu wakale, titha kudziwa momwe zinthu ziliri pamsonkhanowu pamaziko a zolembazo ndikuyesa kuwona masomphenya anu kapena zokhumba zanu (ku (re) kuwerengera) za alimony ndikulemba iwo. Kuphatikiza apo, titha kukuthandizani munjira zomwe zingatheke kuti musamalire zamankhwala. Maloya ku Law & More Ndi akatswiri pamalamulo abanja ndipo ali okondwa kukutsogolerani, mwina limodzi ndi mnzanu, pochita izi.
