Kulimbana ndi kusudzulana ndi chochitika chosasangalatsa chomwe chimaphatikizapo malingaliro ambiri.
Munthawi imeneyi ndikofunikira kuti zinthu zingapo zizikonzedwa bwino ndipo chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuyimbira chithandizo choyenera.
Tsoka ilo, nthawi zambiri zimachitika pochita kuti ogwirizana nawo m'tsogolo sangathe kukwaniritsa mgwirizano pamodzi. Maphwando nthawi zina akhoza ngakhale kutsutsana diametrically wina ndi mzake pa nkhani zina. Zikatero, mkhalapakati sangathe kupereka yankho. Ngati okwatirana adziwiratu kuti sangathe kumvana pamodzi, ndi bwino kuitana mwamsanga loya wabanja. Thandizo loyenera ndi chithandizo chidzakupulumutsirani nthawi yambiri, ndalama ndi zokhumudwitsa. Loya wanu adzadzipereka kwathunthu pazokonda zanu.
Wokondedwa wanu wakale mwina adzakhala ndi loya wake. Kenako maloyawo adzayamba kukambirana. Mwanjira imeneyi maloya adzayesa kupeza zabwino kwa makasitomala awo. Pakukambilana kwa maloya, onse awiri amayenera kupereka ndi kutengapo kanthu. Mwanjira imeneyi, mikhalidwe yosiyana imathetsedwa nthawi zambiri ndipo imayikidwa mumgwirizano wachisudzulo. Nthawi zina, okondedwa amalephera kugwirizana chifukwa sali okonzeka kunyengerera. Zikatero, kusudzulana kokwiyitsa kungabuke pakati pa okwatirana.
Mavuto pakamachitika chisudzulo
Chisudzulo sichimasangalatsa konse, koma pankhani ya kusudzulana komenyana kumapita patsogolo kwambiri. Kaŵirikaŵiri matope amaponyedwa uku ndi uku m’kusudzulana kwankhondo. Nthawi zina maphwando amayesa kuchita chilichonse chomwe angathe kuti asokoneze. Nthawi zambiri zimenezi zimaphatikizapo kutukwanana ndi kudzudzulana. Kusudzulana kwamtunduwu nthawi zambiri kumatha kutenga nthawi yayitali mosayenera.
Nthaŵi zina kusudzulana kumatenga zaka zambiri! Kuwonjezera pa kutengeka maganizo, kusudzulana kumeneku kumaphatikizaponso ndalama. Chisudzulo chimakhala chotopetsa mwakuthupi komanso m'maganizo kwa okwatirana. Ana nawonso akamakhudzidwa, kusudzulana kumakhala kokhumudwitsa kwambiri. Kaŵirikaŵiri ana ndiwo amavutika chifukwa cha kusudzulana. N’chifukwa chake m’pofunika kuchita chilichonse chimene tingathe kuti tipewe kuthetsa banja.
Limbani ndi chisudzulo ndi ana
Nthawi zambiri amalimbana ndi kusudzulana, ana amagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati chida polimbana ndi makolo. Kaŵirikaŵiri pamakhala chiwopsezo cha kusasonyeza ana kwa kholo lina. Zimakhala zothandiza kwa ana ngati makolo onse amayesetsa kuletsa kusudzulana. Anawo angavutike kwambiri chifukwa cha kusudzulana kwankhondo ndipo nthaŵi zina mpaka kufika pa mkangano wa kukhulupirika. Amayi amawauza zomwe Adadi akulakwitsa ndipo Adadi amawatsutsa.
Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti ana a makolo osudzulana amakumana ndi mavuto ambiri kuposa ana a makolo osudzulana. Pali chiopsezo chowonjezeka cha mavuto a maganizo ndi kuvutika maganizo. Kuchita bwino kusukulu kumatha kutsika ndipo mwana amatha kukhala ndi vuto lolowa muubwenzi pambuyo pake.
Komanso maukonde a maphwando monga aphunzitsi, achibale, abwenzi ndi mabungwe, nthawi zambiri amalowa m'kusudzulana. Choncho, kusudzulana kumakhudza maganizo a ana. Pajatu ali pakati pa makolo onse awiri. Banja chilamulo maloya a Law & More chifukwa chake ndikukulangizani kuti muchite chilichonse chomwe mungathe kuti mupewe kusudzulana. Komabe, timamvetsetsa kuti nthawi zina kusudzulana sikungapeweke. Zikatero mutha kulumikizana ndi malamulo abanja maloya a Law & More.
Uphungu pakachitika chisudzulo chomenya nkhondo
Pankhani yothetsa banja, kuwongolera koyenera ndikofunikira kwambiri. Ichi ndichifukwa chake upangiri ndikuti mupange ntchito loya wabwino yemwe angayang'anire zofuna zanu munjira yoyenera. Ndikofunikira kuti loya wanu afufuze yankho ndipo achite zonse zotheka kuti athetse nkhondoyi posachedwa, kuti mupitilize ndi moyo wanu.
Kodi mukutenga nawo gawo (kumenya) chisudzulo? Osazengereza kulumikizana ndi maloya am'banja la Law & More. Ndife okonzeka kukuthandizani ndikukutsogolerani munthawi yovutayi.
