Kuchokera Kuchikondi Kupita Kumlandu: Malangizo 8 Omwe Mungapewere Chisudzulo Choyipa

Chisudzulo chingasinthe kuchoka ku chowawa kukhala chofulumira chakupha: kukwera mtengo kwa zinthu, mauthenga amatumizidwa ndi zida, ana amamva kupsyinjika, ndipo amene amakhala m’nyumba amakhala chiphokoso. Ngati muli ku Netherlands, mutha kuda nkhawa ndi njira, nthawi, komanso zomwe woweruza angachite ngati zinthu zikukula. Nayi nkhani yabwino: zisudzulo zambiri sizifunikira ndewu m'bwalo lamilandu. Ndi dongosolo lodekha, malire omveka bwino, ndi akatswiri oyenerera, mutha kuteteza ndalama zanu, zinsinsi zanu, ndi ubale wanu wolera mnzako uku mukuyenda mwaulemu.

Bukhuli likugawana njira zisanu ndi zitatu zothandiza, zodziwa malamulo kuti mupewe kusudzulana koyipa, ndi mindandanda yazomwe zikuyenera kuchitikira Netherlands. Muphunzira momwe mungasankhire mnzanu wodalirika, wolankhula zinenero zambiri (ndi momwe angachitire Law & More tsatirani izi), kuwongolera malingaliro, kugwiritsa ntchito mkhalapakati kapena chisudzulo chogwirizana, khazikitsani dongosolo loyamba la kulera mwana, khalani osamala pankhani yazachuma, lankhulani mwaukadaulo, kupanga zisankho zotetezeka za nyumba, ndi kulemba mapangano olondola. Kaya ndinu wachi Dutch kapena wochokera kumayiko ena, mupeza mayendedwe okhazikika kuti mikangano ikhale yochepa komanso kuti zotsatira zake zikhale zabwino. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi chiganizo chomwe chimayika kamvekedwe kake: bwenzi lanu lovomerezeka.

1. Yambani ndi bwenzi loyenera lazamalamulo: gwirani naye ntchito Law & More kaamba ka chisudzulo cholimbikitsa, cha zinenero zambiri cha Chidatchi

The woyimira mlandu mumasankha amakhazikitsa kamvekedwe ka chilichonse chomwe chikutsatira. Sankhani wotsutsa wankhanza ndipo mkwiyo (ndi ma invoice) umakonda kukwera; sankhani gulu lolimbikitsa, la anthu - choyamba ndipo mumayang'anira. Ngati cholinga chanu chinali “kuchokera ku chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere chisudzulo choipa”, yambani mwa kugwirizana ndi uphungu womangidwa kuti mupite patsogolo modekha.

Chomwe chiri

Mnzanu wolimbikitsa, wolankhula zilankhulo zambiri waku Dutch wosudzulana amakuwongolerani njira, zolemba, ndi zokambirana momveka bwino komanso mwachangu. Law & More imapereka ukatswiri wa zamalamulo pabanja komanso wolumikizana m'magawo 16, njira yogwirira ntchito masitepe anayi (kudziŵana → kukambirana nkhani → ndondomeko ya sitepe ndi sitepe → kagwiridwe), ndi ntchito zofikiridwa moona mtima: Lolemba-Lachisanu 08:00–22:00, Loweruka ndi Lamlungu 09:00–17:00. Gululi limagwira ntchito m'Chidatchi, Chingerezi, Chifalansa, Chijeremani, ndi Chituruki, ndipo maofesi ali mkati Eindhoven ndi Amsterdam, ndi zolipiritsa zowonekera (€250–€400 paola lililonse ex. VAT, ndi makonzedwe amitengo yokhazikika ngati kuli koyenera).

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Kusemphana maganizo kumakula pakasokonezeka, kuchedwa, ndi kumasulira molakwika. Law & More's Personal, mwachindunji njira amachepetsa flashpoints kudzera mofulumira kulankhulana, zoyembekezeka momveka, ndi dongosolo inu nonse mungatsatire. Kuwongolera zilankhulo zambiri kumalepheretsa kusamvetsetsana kokwera mtengo kwa mayiko. Kukula kwawo kumatanthauza nkhani zokhudzana (nyumba, ntchito, kusamuka, bizinesi) zimasamalidwa nthawi zonse, kupewa mikangano yapambali. Ndipo potengera mtengo ndi zosankha zomwe zidakambidwa koyambirira, kuphatikiza njira zomwe adakambitsirana ndi nkhoswe musanazenge mlandu ngati kuli koyenera, mumangoyang'ana zotsatira, osati kugoletsa.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

Msonkhano wanu woyamba usanachitike, zikonzereni zoyambira bwino, zochepetsera mikangano.

• Sungitsani zomwe mwalandira mwachinsinsi: Gawani zolinga, mizere yofiyira, ndi zoopsa zomwe zingachitike mwachangu.
• Fotokozani zofunika kwambiri: Ana, nyumba, ndalama—zimene zili zofunika kwambiri.
• Sonkhanitsani zolemba zazikulu: Maukwati / prenup, ma ID, bank/mortgage/penshoni.
• Funsani mapu apamsewu: Nthawi, zochitika zazikulu, ndi ndani amachita nthawi yake.
• Kambiranani zomwe mungachite: Kukambitsirana/mkhalapakati poyamba; milandu pokhapokha ngati pakufunika.
• Gwirizanitsani pa chindapusa: Ola lililonse motsutsana ndi kukhazikitsidwa kumene kuli kotheka; pezani zowerengera polemba.
• Sankhani chinenero chanu: Dutch, English, French, German, or Turkish.
• Khazikitsani malamulo olankhulirana: Sinthani pafupipafupi, matchanelo, ndi nthawi yoyankha.

2. Atsogolereni modekha, osati mikangano: wongolerani malingaliro anu ndi chithandizo choyenera

Chibwenzi chikasokonekera, thupi lanu nthawi zambiri limakhala ngati chiwopsezo cha kupulumuka-kuthamanga kwa adrenaline, kuganiza kumakhala kocheperako, ndipo kumenya nkhondo / kuthawa kumayamba. Ndipamene malemba amakhala oopsa, zolemba zamagulu zimatuluka, ndipo nkhani zing'onozing'ono zimaphulika. Ngati "kuchokera ku chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere zoyipa kusudzulana” ndicho cholinga chanu, simungatsutsane ndi biology—muyenera kuisamalira mwadongosolo komanso mothandizidwa.

Chomwe chiri

Dongosolo loyang'anira malingaliro limaphatikiza thandizo la akatswiri (aphungu, othandizira, kapena mphunzitsi) okhala ndi njira zosavuta zolumikizirana tsiku ndi tsiku. Kumatanthauza kusankha anthu aŵiri odalirika kaamba ka chitonthozo, osati unyinji wa anthu, ndi kukana kuyerekezera kopanda phindu ndi zisudzulo zina. Chofunika kwambiri, kumatanthauzanso kuchoka pazama media ndikusunga mlandu kuti mutha kuyang'ana kwambiri zisankho, osati sewero.

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Kudekha ndikopulumutsa ndalama. Ndi chithandizo, mudzaima kaye musanayankhe, sungani mauthenga owona, ndipo pewani kupsereza mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ndi zolemba zapagulu kapena kuloza zolakwa - makhalidwe omwe nthawi zambiri amatalikitsa ndi kuwononga milandu. Zotsatira zake: kukambitsirana momveka bwino, kuchepekera kwa loya yemwe amathera nthawi yozimitsa moto, komanso kukhala ndi mwayi wokwanira wothetsa nkhani popanda khoti.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

Ikani zoteteza izi poyambirira kuti ntchitoyo isasunthike.

• Thandizo la akatswiri olemba mabuku: Phungu/othandizira kapena mphunzitsi wosudzulana kuti afufuze pafupipafupi.
• Sankhani awiri okhulupirira: Kutsamira pa iwo maganizo; pewani upangiri wamalamulo wa anthu ambiri.
• Gwiritsani ntchito lamulo la maola 24: Osatumiza mameseji aukali tsiku lomwe mwalemba.
• Lembani ngati katswiri: Kulankhulana kukhale kwachidule, kusalowerera ndale, komanso zoona.
• Khalani mumdima pazagulu: Palibe zolemba zokhudzana ndi chisudzulo, wakale wanu, kapena maubale atsopano.
• Chotsani mlandu: Limbikitsani zokambirana pamalingaliro, mapangano, ndi masitepe otsatira.

3. Sankhani nkhoswe kapena chisudzulo chogwirizana kukhoti

Mkwiyo ukakwera kwambiri, zomwe mwasankha zimatha kuyatsa moto kapena kuziziziritsa. Khoti ndi la anthu onse, lokhazikika, komanso lochedwa. Kupakatirana ndipo kusudzulana kogwirizana ndi njira zachinsinsi, zamtsogolo zomwe zimakupangitsani inu nonse kuwongolera - ndendende zomwe mukufuna ngati cholinga chanu chiri kuyambira chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere kusudzulana koyipa.

Chomwe chiri

Mediation ndi zokambirana zokonzedwa bwino zotsogozedwa ndi wosalowerera ndale yemwe amakuthandizani kuti mufikire ndikulemba mapangano olerera, nyumba, chithandizo, ndi katundu. Chisudzulo chogwirizana chimapitanso patsogolo: mkwatibwi aliyense ali ndi loya wophunzitsidwa kuthetsa (osati kuimba mlandu), ndipo, ngati n'kothandiza, akatswiri osalowerera ndale amalumikizana, monga katswiri wongoganizira za ana kapena katswiri wazachuma - kupanga zotulukapo zachilungamo, zogwira ntchito. Zitsanzo zonse ziwirizi zimaika malire, zimalimbikitsa kukambirana kolimbikitsa, ndi cholinga cha mayankho okhalitsa.

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Njira izi zikucheperachepera. Mumakumana mwamseri, gwirirani ntchito zokonda m'malo moimba mlandu, ndipo muchepetse nthawi ndi ndalama polimbana ndi milandu ya kukhoti. Njira yogwirizanirana ndiyopanda mikangano ndipo imalimbikitsa kukomerana mtima—ndikofunikira ngati mudzakhala kholo limodzi. Ndipo chifukwa maloya amadzipereka kuti athetse mlandu woyamba ndi kukhoti ngati njira yomaliza, zolimbikitsa za aliyense zimagwirizana ndi chigamulo, osati kugoletsa.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

Yambani molawirira ndikukhazikitsa njira yochepetsera, yotsika mtengo.

• Chowonekera chowoneka bwino: Funsani loya wanu kuti awone kuyimira pakati / mgwirizano ngati njira yanu yoyamba.
• Konzani zodyera limodzi: Gwirizanani ndi mkhalapakati wosalowerera ndale kapena gulu logwirizana; tsimikizirani zilankhulo zomwe nonse mumakonda.
• Saina zikalata zachitetezo: Kutenga nawo mbali ndi mgwirizano wachinsinsi kuti zokambirana zikhale zotetezeka komanso zachinsinsi.
• Tanthauzirani zolinga zomwe munagawana: Ubwino wa ana, nyumba yokhazikika, ndalama zachilungamo - zilembeni.
• Konzekerani kuwulutsa: Bweretsani zaposachedwa za banki, ngongole, ngongole, ndalama, ndi penshoni ku gawo loyamba.
• Onjezani osalowererapo pakufunika: Katswiri wa ana kwa mapulani olerera ana; ndale osalowerera ndale za bajeti ndi zokhazikika.
• Kupanga ajenda ndi cadence: Misonkhano yaifupi, yokhazikika; mphindi zokhala ndi zinthu zomwe zikuchitika pambuyo pa gawo lililonse.
• Sungani bwalo ngati njira yomaliza: Gwirizanani tsiku lobwereza; ngati nkhani zayima, yesani tebulo lozungulira lokhala ndi uphungu musanapereke.

4. Musalole kuti ana asamavutike ndi dongosolo lolera limodzi ndi ana loyamba

Palibe chomwe chimatembenuza chikondi kukhala mlandu mwachangu kuposa kukokera ana kunkhondo zazikulu. Kugwiritsa ntchito ana ngati chiwongola dzanja kapena kunena za wakale wanu pafupi nawo kumakwiyitsa chilichonse ndikuumitsa maudindo. Ngati cholinga chanu chimachokera ku chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere chisudzulo choyipa, ikani ana anu pachimake popanga zisankho - ndikuwateteza kuti asakumane ndi mkangano.

Chomwe chiri

Dongosolo lolerera limodzi ndi mwana woyamba ndi mgwirizano womveka bwino, wolembedwa womwe umayika patsogolo bata ndi moyo wabwino wa ana anu. Imakhazikitsa ndondomeko ya mlungu ndi mlungu, maholide, zopereka, ndi malamulo olankhulana; imatanthauzira momwe zisankho zazikulu (sukulu, chisamaliro chaumoyo, maulendo) zimapangidwira; limafotokoza momwe ndalama zokhuza ana zimasamalidwira; ndipo imaphatikizapo njira yosavuta yothetsera kusamvana kwa makolo. Limalimbikitsanso makolo onse kuti ateteze ana ku nkhani za akuluakulu—osawafunsa mafunso, osalankhula molakwa, osagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yaubereki monga njira yongokhalira kukambirana.

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Mapulani a ubereki akuipiraipira chifukwa amalekanitsa zosowa za ana ndi ndewu za ndalama ndipo amasiya kukambirananso zoyambira sabata iliyonse. Kuvomereza mfundo zolerera poyamba kumachepetsa kutengeka mtima ndi mtengo wake poyerekeza ndi kumenyera ufulu wolera, ndipo kumalimbikitsa kukomerana komwe kumayambitsa zokambirana zachuma. Pokhala ndi zoyembekeza zogawana komanso njira yothanirana ndi zovuta pamsewu, mumawononga nthawi yochepa kuzimitsa moto komanso nthawi yochulukirapo yolera ana.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

Apatseni ana anu chizoloŵezi chokhazikika, chodziwikiratu ndi kupewa mikangano pamaso pawo.

• Konzani chizolowezi: Ndondomeko ya mlungu ndi mlungu, tchuthi cha sukulu, masiku obadwa, ndi masiku apadera.
• Tanthauzirani zoperekedwa: Nthawi/malo enieni, amene amayendetsa mayendedwe, ndi dongosolo losunga zobwezeretsera.
• Kupanga zisankho: Amene amasankha pa maphunziro, chisamaliro chaumoyo, chipembedzo, ndi maulendo; njira yopumira.
• Ndalama za ana: Momwe ndalama zokhudzana ndi ana zimalipidwa (zothandizira, chisamaliro cha ana, zochita) ndikutsatiridwa.
• Malamulo olankhulana: Gwiritsani ntchito mayendedwe osalowerera ndale, sungani mauthenga achidule komanso onena za ana, kupuma kwa maola 24 pamitu yovuta.
• Kukonzekera kwa nyumba: Nthawi zogona, zowonetsera, homuweki - vomerezani zazikulu kuti muchepetse chikwapu.
• Lonjezo lachinsinsi: Palibe kutumiza za mikangano kapena mabwenzi atsopano; osafunsa ana kuti akazonde kapena atenge mbali.
• Njira ya mikangano: Yesani kuyang'ana mwachindunji → mkhalapakati/katswiri wa ana → pokhapo ganizirani kukhothi.
• Nkhani imodzi kwa ana: Muwawuze iwo pamodzi, osalakwa; atsimikizireni kuti ali otetezeka ndi okondedwa.
• Zilankhulo zamalingaliro/chikhalidwe: Ngati ndinu banja lapadziko lonse lapansi, vomerezani pakugwiritsa ntchito chinenero, miyambo, ndi kulankhulana kusukulu.

5. Khalani omasuka pazachuma ndikukonzekera kuyambira tsiku loyamba

Chifunga chandalama chimayambitsa kusakhulupirirana—ndipo kusakhulupirirana kumayambitsa mikangano. Kuonekera poyera pazachuma kumatanthauza kuyika makhadi onse patebulo msanga: ndalama zomwe mumapeza, maakaunti aku banki ndi mabizinesi, penshoni, ngongole, katundu, ndi zowonongera nthawi zonse. Zimatanthauzanso kusunga zolemba mwadongosolo, kupewa kusuntha kwa ndalama mwadzidzidzi, ndi kuvomereza dongosolo losavuta, logawana mabilu pamene mukukambirana. Ngati cholinga chanu chimachokera ku chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere zoyipa kusudzulana, yambani ndi kupanga manambala kukhala otopetsa ndi owoneka.

Chomwe chiri

Kuwonekera pazachuma ndi zonse, kuwululidwa panthawi yake komanso bungwe lofunikira. Mumasonkhanitsa ziganizo, kulemba maakaunti momveka bwino, kutsatira ndalama zapakhomo ndi za ana, ndikusunga pepala lodekha. Mumapewa njira za "gotcha" - monga kukhetsa maakaunti olowa, kubisa katundu, kapena kuletsa makhadi - zomwe zimadzetsa malingaliro ndikusokoneza zokambirana. M'malo mwake, mumapanga zowululira zamoyo ndikuzisintha momwe mukupita kuti zisankho zitha kupangidwa pazowona, osati kukayikira.

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Zodabwitsa zandalama zimayambitsa nkhondo zamalamulo. Kutsegula kumachepetsa kutentha, kufulumizitsa kuyankhulana kapena kukambirana, ndipo kumachepetsa nthawi ya loya yomwe imathera kuthamangitsa zomwe zikusowa. Mwa kuvomereza malamulo oyambira—popanda kusamutsidwa kwakukulu, osatseka malo ogwirizana popanda chilolezo, mabilu ogwirizana omwe amalipidwa panthaŵi yake—mumachotsa mfundo zongoyerekezera. Zotsatira zake zimakhala zoneneza zocheperapo, kusamalidwa bwino, ndi njira yomveka bwino yopitira ku mapangano achilungamo, okhalitsa.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

Yalani maziko abwino azachuma omwe amachepetsa ndalama komanso mikangano.

• Pangani mndandanda wathunthu: Mabanki onse, ndalama, ndalama, kubwereketsa nyumba, ngongole, ndi penshoni ndi mawu aposachedwa.
• Ndalama zamakalata ndi misonkho: Malipiro aposachedwa, zopindula, ndi zobweza zomaliza zamisonkho.
• Zithunzi zamtengo wapatali ndi ngongole: Zithunzi / zolemba zamagalimoto, zodzikongoletsera, zaluso; tchulani makhadi a ngongole ndi ndalama.
• Pangani bajeti yosavuta: Ndalama zapakhomo, kusamalira ana, ntchito; zindikirani yemwe amalipira zomwe pano.
• Gwirizanani ndi "zopanda zodabwitsa": Palibe kuchotsa kwakukulu, kusamutsa, kapena kuletsa makadi popanda mgwirizano wolembedwa; sungani zolipirira zokha.
• Tsegulani akaunti yanu (zowonekera): Pezani ndalama zatsopano kumeneko; onetsetsani kuti zomangira zikupitiriza kulipidwa.
• Gawani paketi yowulula: Perekani mndandanda womwewo wa zolemba mumkhalapakati/mgwirizano; sintha mwezi uliwonse.
• Gwiritsani ntchito kusalowerera ndale ngati kuli kovuta: Zothandiza pamabizinesi, penshoni, kapena nkhani zapamalire.
• Tsatani ndalama za ana: Sungani malisiti ndi chipika chogawana nawo kuti mupewe mikangano yamtsogolo.
• Lembani zotsalira pamasiku ofunikira: Sungani ziganizo za tsiku lomwe mwayamba ndondomeko yothandizira kugawanika kwachilungamo.

6. Lumikizanani ngati katswiri ndikukhala kutali ndi chikhalidwe TV

Kusudzulana kwa mikangano yayikulu nthawi zambiri amayamba ndi mauthenga osasamala komanso zolemba zapagulu. Kuyankhulana kwaukatswiri kumatanthauza kuti mumalemba ngati mkhalapakati-kapena woweruza-awerenga: mwachidule, osalowerera ndale, owona, komanso olunjika pa mayankho. Zikutanthauzanso kuyimitsidwa kwathunthu kwa media media. Monga angapo achipatala kuchenjeza, zolemba zokwiyitsa kapena kuwonetsa ubale watsopano kumadzetsa mikangano ndikutalikitsa mikangano - ndendende zomwe mukuyesera kupewa ngati cholinga chanu chiri kuyambira chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere kusudzulana koyipa.

Chomwe chiri

Khazikitsani tchanelo chimodzi (nthawi zambiri maimelo) pamayendedwe, gwiritsani ntchito mizere yomveka bwino, ndikusunga mauthenga molunjika. Pewani kutumizirana mameseji usiku kwambiri, kunyozana, ndi kuimba mlandu; tsatirani masiku, manambala, ndi malingaliro. Osaphatikizira njirayo - abwenzi ndi okuthandizani, osati njira - ndipo sungani moyo wanu wamseri osalumikizidwa mpaka zonse zitathetsedwa.

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Mauthenga osalowerera ndale, okonzedwa bwino amachepetsa zoyambitsa, zosankha zothamanga, komanso kuchepetsa kutanthauzira kolakwika (makamaka m'zinenero zambiri). Kuyimitsidwa kwa social media kumalepheretsa kukwera ndikuteteza zinsinsi. Pamodzi, zizolowezizi zimadula nthawi yozimitsa moto kwa loya, kusunga zokambirana bwino, ndikupangitsa kuti kukhale kosavuta kuthetsa nkhani popanda khoti.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

Ikani zowongolera zosavuta kuzungulira uthenga uliwonse womwe mumatumiza.

• Sankhani tchanelo chimodzi: Gwiritsani ntchito imelo (kapena pulogalamu yolerera limodzi) pothandizira; pewani zolemba pamitu yotentha.
• Lembani osalowerera: Ziganizo zazifupi, zopanda mlandu, mfundo ndi malingaliro okha.
• Gwiritsani ntchito kupuma kwa maola 24: Zolemba lero; tumiza mawa pakadekha.
• Khazikitsani mayendedwe: Vomerezani mkati mwa maola 24; perekani nthawi yamayankho athunthu.
• Sungani njira ya pepala: Sungani ulusi ndi chidule chake mukayimba foni.
• Palibe nkhondo ya CC: Ingophatikizani anthu omwe akuyenera kuchitapo kanthu; dumphani abwenzi/banja.
• Musamacheza: Palibe zolemba zokhudzana ndi mlanduwu, wakale wanu, kapena anzanu atsopano - kuzimiririka kwathunthu.
• Gwirizanani ndi chilankhulo: Sankhani Chidatchi kapena Chingerezi kuti mupewe chisokonezo; pewani slang / emojis.
• Tetezani ana: Osatumiza uthenga kudzera mwa iwo; palibe zowonera zomwe zimagawana nawo.
• Escalate smart: Ngati simunamvepo, funsani kuyimbira foni mwachidule kapena mkhalapakati - osatulutsa mawu.

7. Pangani zisankho zanzeru, zotetezeka zokhuza nyumba ndi malo okhala

Kumene mukukhala—ndi mmene mumachitira ndi banja lanu—kukhoza kusintha bata mwamsanga kukhala mikangano. Zosankha zanzeru apa zikutanthauza chitetezo choyamba, bata la ana, ndipo palibe zodabwitsa zapamodzi. Izi zikuphatikizapo kukana majesulidwe odabwitsa monga kusintha kwa loko ndi kusuntha mothamanga. Ngati cholinga chanu chikuchokera ku chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere choyipa kusudzulana, akhazikitse malamulo osakhalitsa a moyo omwe aliyense amawamvetsa ndikulemba.

Chomwe chiri

Dongosolo lothandiza, lokhala ndi nyumba yanthawi yochepa limakhudza amene akukhala panyumba, momwe mabilu amalipidwa, malo omwe ana amagona, ndi malamulo achinsinsi omwe angagwire ntchito mpaka mapangano omaliza asainidwa. Zitha kukhala pansi pa denga limodzi (zipinda zogona padera, nthawi yabata) kapena kasinthasintha wa "chisa" pomwe ana amakhala ndipo makolo amasinthana. Chofunika kwambiri, chimapewa njira zoyaka moto, monga kusintha maloko panyumba yogwirizana/yogwiritsidwa ntchito limodzi, pokhapokha ngati pali chiwopsezo chenicheni chachitetezo ndipo mutatsatira malangizo azamalamulo.

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Malamulo omveka bwino, olembedwa okhalamo amaletsa mikangano yatsiku ndi tsiku pakupeza, katundu, ndi mabilu. Kusunga malipiro amakono kumapewa zochitika zadzidzidzi, ndipo kulemba zinthu zomwe muli nazo kumalepheretsa kuti anthu aziimbidwa mlandu wobisa kapena kuwonongeka. Kufunsana ndi loya wanu musanasamuke kumateteza zolakwika zomwe zitha kuwerengedwa molakwika ngati kusiyidwa ndipo zimathandiza kuteteza kachitidwe ka makolo. Zotsatira zake: malo ocheperako, ana okhazikika, komanso mwayi wocheperako mudzafunika makhothi kuti mungoyang'anira khomo lakumaso.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

Ikani ndondomeko ya nyumba yotetezeka, yodziŵika bwino-mwachangu, koma osati mopupuluma.

• Ikani patsogolo chitetezo: Ngati mukuwopa kuvulazidwa, chokanipo ndikuyimbira loya wanu kapena apolisi nthawi yomweyo.
• Osasintha maloko modzidzimutsa: Panyumba yogawana, pewani kusintha kwa loko pokhapokha atalangizidwa kuti mutetezeke.
• Vomerezani kukhala kwakanthawi: Ndani amagona kuti; maola abata; kugwiritsa ntchito khitchini / kusamba; malamulo alendo.
• Ganizirani kasinthasintha: Sungani ana m'mabedi awo; makolo amasinthasintha kukhala kuti achepetse kusokoneza.
• Sungani mabilu apano: Ngongole / lendi, zothandizira, inshuwaransi - tsatirani yemwe amalipira ndi kusunga malisiti.
• Zamtengo wapatali: Zithunzi / makanema azipinda ndi zinthu zazikulu zisanasunthidwe chilichonse.
• Palibe zotayika mwadzidzidzi: Osagulitsa, kupereka mphatso, kapena kuchotsa zinthu zapakhomo popanda kulemberana pangano.
• Konzani ndondomeko ya ana: Malo operekerako, masukulu, ndi nthawi yogona zomwe zimamveka bwino kwa iwo.
• Tetezani zachinsinsi: Malo ogwirira ntchito osiyana; zokhoma posungira zikalata ndi mankhwala.
• Funsani musanasamuke: Pezani malangizo azamalamulo okhudza kulera ana, mtengo wake, ndi zokhuza kupeza.
• Khazikitsani tsiku lobwereza: Yang'aniraninso dongosolo lanthawi yayitali mumkhalapakati / mgwirizano pambuyo pa masabata a 2-4.

8. Khazikitsani zolinga zenizeni, ndandanda ya nthawi, ndi kulemba mapangano

Zolinga zosamveka komanso kusuntha nthawi ndi mafuta a roketi a mikangano. Yambitsani ndondomekoyi ndi zotsatira zenizeni zochepa, mapu osavuta, ndi mwambo wolembera chisankho chilichonse. Osatengera chisudzulo cha mnzako—mfundo zanu n’zapadera. Ngati cholinga chanu chimachokera ku chikondi kupita kukhoti: momwe mungapewere kusudzulana koyipa, pangani "zabwino, posachedwa" mantra yanu pa "zabwino, tsiku lina."

Chomwe chiri

Ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chokonzekera bwino: mumatanthauzira zofunikira 3-5 (ndondomeko ya ana, nyumba, ndalama zoyenera), kuvomereza mapu a misewu amasiku 60-90 okhala ndi masiku owunikiranso, ndikulemba chosankha chakanthawi. Mumalimbikira ndi magawo afupiafupi, okhazikika ndikusintha mitu yapakamwa kukhala zolemba zosainidwa kapena mapangano akanthawi kuti pasakhalenso kukangana.

Momwe zimathandizire kupewa mikangano

Zolemba nthawi zimachepetsa nkhawa ndikuyimitsa kutsekeka kwa mphindi yomaliza. Mapangano olembedwa amayimitsa "adatero," sungani zabwino, ndikusunga khothi ngati njira yomaliza. Pogawa ndondomekoyi m'mapangano ang'onoang'ono, omwe ali ndi nthawi, mumachepetsa mikangano, kuchepetsa zozimitsa moto wa loya, ndikupangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kuthetsa nkhani zambiri ngakhale mmodzi kapena awiri akusowa nthawi yochulukirapo.

Mndandanda wa zochita (Netherlands)

• Tchulani zolinga zanu zazikulu 3–5: Ana, nyumba, ndi ndalama—ziwerengereni mwadongosolo.
• Pangani mapu amsewu wamasiku 60-90: Miyezo, nthawi ya misonkhano, ndi masiku obwereza.
• Tanthauzani "zabwino mokwanira": Lembani momwe zotsatira zovomerezeka zimawonekera pa cholinga chilichonse.
• Tsekani zotuluka pamisonkhano: Kuzungulira mphindi mkati mwa maola 24; tsimikizirani zomwe mwagwirizana, zoyimitsidwa, ndi masitepe otsatira.
• Mtundu uliwonse: Zolemba za tsiku ndi kugwiritsa ntchito v1, v2… kupewa chisokonezo.
• Saina mapangano akanthawi: Sinthani mfundo zokhazikika kukhala mapangano olembedwa mwachidule kuti apititse patsogolo banki.
• Gwiritsani ntchito zida zogawana: Kalendala ya masiku omalizira; mndandanda wa zolemba ndi zochita.
• Gwirizanani kukwera: Ngati mulibe, konzekerani gawo la mkhalapakati/mgwirizano aliyense asanapereke mlandu kukhothi.
• Pewani zodabwitsa za mphindi yotsiriza: Palibe malingaliro atsopano pa 22:00; tebulo limasintha pasadakhale.
• Unikani ndikukhazikitsanso: Kuwunikanso zolinga ndi nthawi yake pa mfundo iliyonse yowunikira; sinthani pamodzi, polemba.

Khalani mwamtendere komanso molunjika

Chisudzulo choyipa sichingalephereke. Zomwe zili pamwambazi - kusankha uphungu wolimbikitsa, kulandira chithandizo cham'maganizo, kugwiritsa ntchito mkhalapakati kapena mgwirizano, kuyika ana pakati, kukhala omasuka pazachuma, kulankhulana mwaukadaulo, kupanga zisankho zotetezeka, komanso kutsekereza zolinga zolembedwa - zimasintha kutentha kupita patsogolo. Maanja ambiri amatha kuthetsa nkhani zazikuluzikulu mwachinsinsi akamasunga khothi ngati njira yomaliza, kuyika zowona patebulo msanga, ndikukhala odzisunga pakulankhula, nthawi, ndi zolemba.

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