Kulimbana ndi Narcissism mu Malamulo a Banja? Tikhoza Kuthandiza
Narcissism ndi vuto la umunthu lomwe lingakhale ndi zotsatira zowononga kwambiri pa ubale wabanja. Narcissists poyambilira amatha kuwoneka okongola komanso okhutiritsa, koma mawonekedwe awo enieni amatuluka atangolumikizana ndi inu, mwachitsanzo, ukwati, mwana, kapena bizinesi yomangidwa pamodzi. Narcissist amapitabe ndipo sasintha. Khalidwe la narcissist limazungulira pa kudzilemeretsa ndikuwonongera ena.
Anthu omwe ali paubwenzi wankhanza nthawi zambiri amayenera kuphunzira momwe angathanirane ndi chinyengo, kulimbirana mphamvu, ndi kuwongolera, makamaka pamikangano yamalamulo.
Pachisudzulo, narcissist amawona izi ngati chiwopsezo chachikulu pazithunzi ndi kuwongolera kwawo, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimabweretsa kukana ndi zovuta. Ngati munthu amene ali ndi mikhalidwe yachipongwe akutenga nawo mbali pa nkhani za m’banja monga chisudzulo, nkhani zosamalira ana, kapena njira zopezera ana, nkhani zimenezi zimabuka chifukwa cha ubale wankhanza ndipo zingapangitse kuti zinthu zikhale zovuta kwambiri. Ndikofunikira kuti mudziteteze ndi kufunafuna chithandizo choyenera. Narcissists nthawi zambiri amawongolera komanso amawongolera komanso alibe chifundo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti njira zamalamulo zikhale zovuta. Ku Law & More BV, timamvetsetsa zovuta zomwe zikukhudzidwa ndipo timapereka thandizo lazamalamulo kuti muteteze ufulu wanu.
Kodi mumamudziwa bwanji munthu wamatsenga?
Makhalidwe a Narcissism mu Chisudzulo
Narcisists nthawi zonse amaimba mlandu munthu wina chifukwa cha chisudzulo;
Amawonetsa kumvetsetsa pang'ono ndi chifundo;
Sachita manyazi ndi mikangano ndipo amatha kuyambitsa mikangano mwadala;
Amasonyeza khalidwe lolamulira;
General Makhalidwe a Narcissists
Amakonda kulankhula za iwo eni ndipo nthawi zambiri amasokoneza ena.
Iwo satenga zikhalidwe za anthu mozama ndi kudziona ngati odzipatula.
Iwo amanyalanyaza maganizo a anthu ena n’kusintha zinthu.
Amafuna kuoneka bwino kuposa ena ndikubisa zomwe zili zenizeni.
Ndiwokongola koma amakugwetsani akangotaya chidwi.
Iwo amphamvu kwambiri popangitsa ena kukhala osatetezeka.
Amakwiya msanga, satha kudzudzulidwa, ndipo amachita zinthu mwaukali kapena odzipatula.
Mndandanda: Dziwani Narcissist
Alibe chikumbumtima
Imakhala ndi kusintha kwamalingaliro
Sakhutitsidwa ndipo nthawi zambiri amachita nsanje
Ikhoza kuwononga ntchito kapena bizinesi yanu
Sakhala ndi chidwi chokwanira
Amagwiritsa ntchito kuwongolera chete ndikusintha
Simungathe kukhala nokha ndikuyamba kupsa mtima
Amawongolera ndi kunyenga
Mabodza okhutiritsa ndi kuyambitsa mikangano popanda chifukwa
Ndi wodzikonda komanso wokonda kuzolowera
Salankhulana bwino ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito ana ngati zidole
Amasewera anthu motsutsana wina ndi mnzake ndipo nthawi zonse amadzudzula ena
Kukusiyani mwadzidzidzi ndikukugwiritsani ntchito malinga ngati mukufunikira
Alibe makhalidwe ndipo amalimbikira mphamvu
Zimawononga moyo wanu wamalingaliro
Covert Narcissism mu Malamulo a Banja
Covert narcissism ndi mtundu wobisika koma wowononga wa umunthu wa narcissistic womwe nthawi zambiri suzindikirika pamalamulo abanja. Mosiyana ndi anthu olankhula monyanyira, amene amasonyeza kudzikuza ndi kudziona kuti n’ngodziŵika bwino, anthu amene amalankhula mobisa amachitira zinthu m’njira zobisika kwambiri, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zachipongwe ndi maganizo pofuna kukhudza malamulo. M’malamulo a m’banja, kunyozana mobisa kungaonekere monga kutsutsa kosalekeza, kuseŵera wozunzidwayo, ndi kunena zabodza kwa kholo lina kapena mnzanu. Anthuwa angawonekere odzichepetsa kapena odzikonda, koma zochita zawo zimapangidwira kufooketsa ena ndi kusunga ulamuliro.
Ndikofunikira kuti akatswiri azamalamulo ndi makasitomala adziwe za narcissism yachinsinsi komanso momwe imakhudzira milandu yamalamulo abanja. Kuzindikira kusowa kwachifundo ndi kupusitsa kochenjera kungathandize kuletsa wolankhula mobisa kuti asasokoneze mfundo kapena kupeza phindu losayenera. Upangiri wazamalamulo waukatswiri ndi wofunikira pazochitika izi, chifukwa kampani yazamalamulo yodziwa bwino imatha kuthandiza makasitomala kuzindikira machitidwe obisala, kusonkhanitsa umboni wofunikira, ndikupanga njira zotetezera zofuna zawo. Pomvetsetsa zovuta zapadera zomwe zimadza chifukwa chachinsinsi cha narcissism, makasitomala ndi magulu awo azamalamulo amatha kuyendetsa bwino njira zamalamulo ndikupeza chigamulo choyenera.
Kodi chimachitika n'chiyani kwa mnzanu amene akufuna kuthetsa narcissist?
Mukamaganizira za chisudzulo kuchokera kwa narcissist, mutha kukumana ndi zovuta izi:
Kutopa: kupsinjika maganizo ndi kwakukulu.
Kuopa zam'tsogolo: Kusatsimikizika ndi khalidwe losayembekezereka limayambitsa nkhawa.
Kufunika thandizo
Kufuna kumasuka: mukufuna kuswa ubale wodalira.
Kuzindikira zovuta: ndondomekoyi ndi yovuta, koma ndi chithandizo choyenera, kupambana kumatheka.
Kutchinjiriza moyo wanu komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino m'malingaliro ndikofunikira mukamasuka kwa munthu wamatsenga.
Zovuta za Chisudzulo ndi Narcissist
Chisudzulo nthawi zonse chimakhala chochitika chakuya. Pamene m'modzi mwa okondedwawo akuwonetsa machitidwe a narcissistic, zinthu zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Narcissists amatha kukhala opondereza, olamulira komanso nthawi zambiri ankhanza m'malingaliro kapena mwakuthupi, zomwe zimasokoneza kwambiri chisudzulo. Narcissists athanso kupanga mabodza kuti apambane pa ana kapena kulanga mnzake. Komanso, narcissists angagwiritse ntchito ndalama ngati njira yosungira mphamvu pa gulu lina pothandizira ana.
Kusonkhanitsa Umboni ndi Zolemba
M'milandu yamalamulo yabanja yokhudzana ndi anthu ankhanza, kusonkhanitsa umboni ndi zolemba ndikofunikira kwambiri. Nkhanza za Narcissistic nthawi zambiri zimaphatikizanso kuchita zinthu mwachinyengo, kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro, komanso kuyesa kupotoza zenizeni, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala kofunika kukhala ndi mbiri yolinganizidwa bwino ya zochitika. Makasitomala akuyenera kutolera zolemba zonse zofunikira, monga ma statement azachuma, maimelo, mameseji, ndi kulumikizana kulikonse komwe kukuwonetsa nkhanza kapena chinyengo. Mawu a Mboni ochokera kwa mabwenzi, achibale, kapena akatswiri amene aona khalidwe la munthu wolankhula narcissis angakhalenso amtengo wapatali.
Kampani yazamalamulo yodziwa kuyendetsa milandu ya mabanja ndi anthu okondana atha kupereka chitsogozo chaukatswiri pa umboni womwe uli wothandiza komanso momwe ungawuperekere kukhoti. Kulemba zochitika za nkhanza zachipongwe, kuphatikizapo masiku, nthawi, ndi zochitika zinazake, zimathandiza kumanga mlandu wamphamvu ndikuteteza zofuna za kasitomala. Popereka umboni womveka bwino komanso womveka bwino, makasitomala amatha kuonetsetsa kuti khoti likumvetsetsa zenizeni za nkhanzazo ndipo limatha kupanga zisankho zomwe zimateteza ufulu wawo ndi moyo wawo.
Kuchita ndi Manipulative Tactics
Machenjerero achiwembu ndi chizindikiro cha anthu ankhanza pamilandu yamalamulo abanja, ndipo kuthana nawo kumafuna kuzindikira komanso kuchitapo kanthu mwanzeru. Narcisists nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe monga kuwunika kwa gasi, kukhumudwa kwamalingaliro, ndikuwonetsa kulamulira nkhani ndi kukhudza njira yopangira zisankho. Machenjerero amenewa angapangitse chisokonezo, mantha, ndi kudzikayikira mwa ozunzidwa, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuyimira ufulu wawo.
Odziwa zamalamulo ayenera kukhala tcheru komanso odziwa bwino za njira zopusitsira anthu zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito. Kupatsa makasitomala upangiri waukatswiri wamalamulo wa momwe angazindikire ndikuyankhira pamakhalidwe awa ndikofunikira. Njira zingaphatikizepo kukhazikitsa malire olimba, kusunga zolemba zatsatanetsatane za zochitika, ndi kuphatikizira anthu osalowerera ndale ngati kuli kotheka. Kuteteza ana kuti asagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati zidole kapena kugwiritsiridwa ntchito ndi chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pamalamulo abanja. Pomvetsetsa ndi kutsutsa njira zowonongeka, makasitomala amatha kudziteteza kuti asapitirire nkhanza ndikuwonetsetsa kuti ndondomeko yalamulo imakhalabe yachilungamo komanso yoganizira zofuna za onse okhudzidwa.
Kupereka Mlandu Wanu
Kupereka mlandu wanu mogwira mtima ndikofunikira pamalamulo abanja, makamaka mukakumana ndi munthu wolankhula narcissist. Kuthekera kopereka umboni wa machitidwe achinyengo, kuzunzidwa m'malingaliro, ndi mfundo zina zoyenera momveka bwino komanso mwadongosolo zitha kusintha kwambiri zotsatira zake. Mlandu wokonzedwa bwino umathandiza khoti kuona zoyesayesa za narcissist kupotoza chowonadi ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zokonda zanu zatetezedwa.
Kugwira ntchito ndi kampani yazamalamulo yodziwa milandu yamalamulo yabanja yokhudza anthu ankhanza ndikofunikira. Akatswiri azamalamulowa amadziwa kupanga mikangano, kuwunikira umboni wofunikira, ndikuyembekezera machenjerero omwe narcissist angagwiritse ntchito kukhothi. Poyang'ana zenizeni ndi kupereka umboni m'njira yokakamiza, makasitomala angathandize khoti kumvetsetsa kukula kwa nkhanza ndi chinyengo chomwe apirira. Njirayi sikuti imateteza ufulu wa kasitomala komanso imathandizira kusamvana koyenera komanso koyenera kwa onse omwe akukhudzidwa.
Njira yathu pamilandu yokhudzana ndi narcissist
Kampani yathu yazamalamulo ili ndi chidziwitso chambiri pakuwongolera milandu yokhudza narcissism. Narcissists atha kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito malamulo ndi zopinga zalamulo kuti apindule, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala kofunika kukhala ndi chithandizo chodziwa zamalamulo.
Nazi njira zomwe tingathandizire:
Malangizo Azamalamulo a Katswiri: Timapereka upangiri waukadaulo paufulu wanu ndi njira zabwino zoyendetsera nkhani zovuta zamalamulo zokhudzana ndi narcissism. Timamvetsetsa zovuta zapadera zomwe zimachitika pamikhalidwe iyi ndipo titha kukuthandizani kuti mupange mlandu wolimba. Kupanga njira yomveka bwino yazamalamulo ndikofunikira kuti muthane ndi njira zopusitsa ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zokonda zanu zatetezedwa.
Thandizo Lanzeru popanda kufunsa mnzanu wakale: Timamvetsetsa kuti nthawi zina ndikwabwino kuti musamachite zinthu mwanzeru, makamaka ngati mnzanu wakale amawonetsa nkhanza. Chifukwa chake, titha kukudziwitsani ndikukulangizani kumbuyo. Mwanjira iyi, mudzalandira malangizo ofunikira pakukhazikitsa kwanu kusudzulana popanda mnzanu wakale kudziwa za wanu kukumana ndi lawyer.
Chitetezo ndi Thandizo: Timakuthandizani kuti mutenge njira zodzitchinjiriza kuti musamachite zinthu mopusitsa komanso kuwongolera machitidwe a munthu wamatsenga. Izi zingaphatikizepo kupeza malamulo otetezera kuti mutsimikizire chitetezo chanu ndi cha ana anu.
Kuyankhulana Kwabwino ndi Kukambirana: Ngati n'kotheka kukwaniritsa mapangano mwa mgwirizano, ife monga Oweruza angathandize. Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti njira yodzisankhira yokha yothetsera mkangano nthawi zambiri imawonedwa ngati yabwino kwambiri. Loya atha kuyang'anira zokambirana ndikuwonetsetsa kuti onse awiri akumvedwa. Maloya athu amaphunzitsidwa momwe angathanirane ndi machitidwe ovuta ndipo amadziwa momwe angalankhulire ndi kukambirana mogwira mtima ndi anthu omwe ali ndi vuto.
Thandizo lazamalamulo pazochitika: Inde, pangakhale nthaŵi zina pamene kuli kosatheka kufikira mapangano mwamtendere kuti athetse chisudzulocho. Nthawi zina, woweruza ndiye kuti amange mfundo. Timapereka chithandizo chonse chazamalamulo pamilandu yotere, kuteteza mwamphamvu zokonda zanu komanso kufunafuna zotsatira zabwino kwambiri.
Kusonkhanitsa Umboni: Timathandiza kusonkhanitsa ndi kupereka umboni wa khalidwe lachipongwe, monga chinyengo, nkhanza kapena kulamulira ndalama. Izi zitha kukhala zofunika kwambiri pamilandu yolimbikitsa mlandu wanu.
Kumvetsetsa Malamulo ndi Ndondomeko Zalamulo: Mukakumana ndi narcissist pakuzengereza milandu, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa malamulo a umboni ndi njira zamakhothi. Kudziwa malamulowa kumathandizira kuwonetsetsa kuti mlandu wanu waperekedwa bwino ndipo amayesa kusokoneza njira zamalamulo.
Momwe Timakuthandizireni Kupyolera mu Kumveka ndi Mapangidwe
Kusanthula Mkhalidwewo: Timasanthula bwino mkhalidwe wanu kuti tidziwe njira yabwino kwambiri.
Kupanga Plan: pamodzi ndi inu, tikupanga dongosolo latsatanetsatane lomwe limaganizira zonse zamalamulo ndi zaumwini.
Malangizo Anzeru: Timakupatsirani upangiri wanzeru ndikukuthandizani panjira iliyonse kuti mukhale okonzekera bwino komanso kuti mnzanu wakale asadziwe kuti mukulandira thandizo lazamalamulo.
Kupanga mapangano omveka bwino komanso okhazikika: kupewa kupusitsa ndi kukambirana mtsogolo.
Katswiri Wathu pa Nkhani za Malamulo a Banja
, tili ndi chidziwitso chakuya komanso ukatswiri pamitundu yosiyanasiyana malamulo apabanja ndi nkhani, Kuphatikizapo:
Kusudzulana: Kuyang'anira ndondomeko yonse, kuphatikizapo alimony ndi kusunga. Zambiri patsamba lathu lachisudzulo.
Kuyamikira Ana: Chitsogozo chazamalamulo pa kuzindikiridwa asanabadwe, mkati kapena pambuyo pobadwa.
Kukana Ubale: Thandizo pakutsata malamulo oletsa kulera ana.
Kusungidwa ndi Kulera Mwana: Thandizo pakupeza milandu yosungidwa kapena kulera ana. Timathananso ndi zovuta zapadera zomwe zimabuka pothana ndi kholo lachibwana pamikangano yosunga mwana, ndikugogomezera kufunika kokhazikitsa dongosolo lolerera bwino.
Kuchotsa ndi Kuyang'anira: Thandizo lazamalamulo pakachotsedwa kapena kuyang'aniridwa.
Kuyanjanitsa ndi Njira Yina Yothetsera Mikangano: Yesetsani kupeza mayankho mwamtendere kuti musatenge nthawi yayitali komanso kuchepetsa nkhawa.
Narcissism M'madera Ena Alamulo
Ngakhale kuti narcissism nthawi zambiri imawoneka pamilandu yamalamulo abanja, imathanso kuchitapo kanthu m'magawo ena azamalamulo, zitsanzo zina zamalamulo zomwe narcissism imatha kuchitapo kanthu kwambiri:
Lamulo la ntchito: Olemba ntchito kapena ogwira nawo ntchito a Narcissistic angapangitse malo ogwirira ntchito ankhanza, zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto monga kupezerera anzawo, kusankhana kapena kuchotsedwa ntchito molakwika. Timakuthandizani kuteteza ufulu wanu ndikuchitapo kanthu moyenera.
Lamulo la mgwirizano: Mu ubale wamabizinesi, anthu okonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo amatha kuyesa kusokoneza kapena kuswa mapangano amgwirizano. Timapereka chithandizo chazamalamulo kuwonetsetsa kuti makontrakitala akutsatiridwa bwino komanso zokonda zanu zimatetezedwa.
Kutsiliza
Kuthana ndi vuto lachipongwe m'malamulo abanja ndi nkhani zina zamalamulo kumatha kukhala kovutirapo komanso kukhumudwitsa. Pa Law & More, timamvetsetsa zovuta za zochitikazi ndipo ndife okonzeka kukuthandizani ndi upangiri wazamalamulo waukatswiri ndi njira zogwirira ntchito zamalamulo.
Kodi muli m'nkhani yalamulo ndi munthu wamatsenga? Tikukupatsani chithandizo chaumwini komanso chodzipereka. Kodi mungakonde kudziwa zambiri za ufulu wanu komanso momwe tingakuthandizireni? Ngati ndi choncho, chonde lemberani. Gulu lathu la maloya odziwa zambiri ndi okonzeka kukuthandizani.
Kumvetsetsa Matenda a Narcissistic Personality Disorder ndi Zotsatira Zake pa Malamulo a Banja
Matenda a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) ndi matenda odziwika bwino omwe amadziwika ndi kutchuka kwa nthawi yaitali, kudziona kukhala wofunika kwambiri, kufunikira kosirira nthawi zonse, komanso kusamvera ena chisoni. Kaŵirikaŵiri mikhalidwe imeneyi imawonekera m’makhalidwe achinyengo ndi kukana kulandira thayo lazochita zake. Pankhani yamalamulo abanja, NPD imatha kusokoneza mikangano yamalamulo, chifukwa anthu okondana amatha kugwiritsa ntchito njira zachinyengo kuti apambane, kuchulukitsira milandu, komanso kulamulira achibale awo.
Kuzindikira zaumoyo wamaganizidwe wa narcissism ndikofunikira kwa akatswiri azamalamulo omwe amasamalira milandu ngati imeneyi. Kupereka umboni womwe umavumbulutsa machitidwe a narcissist achinyengo, chinyengo, ndi kusowa chifundo ndikofunikira kuti athane ndi njira zawo zamilandu ndikumvetsetsa bwino zomwe amachita. Kumvetsetsa machitidwe a narcissism, kuphatikizapo narcissism mobisa komwe khalidwe lachinyengo limakhala lodziwika bwino, kumathandiza kuyembekezera zovuta ndikupanga njira zogwirira ntchito zamalamulo. Kupsinjika maganizo kwa ozunzidwa, makamaka pankhondo zosungira makolo okondana kapena mwamuna kapena mkazi wankhanza, kungakhale kofunikira kuika patsogolo zofuna za ana ndi achibale omwe ali pachiopsezo, makamaka pamene wotsutsayo ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wankhanza kukhoti la banja.
Kuyenda Mwalamulo ndi Narcissistic Partner
Njira zamalamulo nthawi zina zimatha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ndi anthu ankhanza kuti apitilize kuzunza komanso kusunga mphamvu. Narcissists akhoza kupereka zifukwa zopanda pake, kunena zabodza, kapena kusokoneza malamulo a khoti kuti apindule nawo. Njirazi sizimangosokoneza malamulo komanso zimawonjezera kupsinjika maganizo ndi zachuma pa wozunzidwayo.
Akatswiri azamalamulo odziwa zamalamulo abanja komanso nkhanza zachipongwe atha kupereka chithandizo chofunikira pothandiza ozunzidwa kusunga malire, kulemba zachinyengo, ndikupereka umboni wokwanira. Kuyankhulana bwino ndi kukambitsirana koyenera ndikofunikira pochita ndi anthu okondana kuti tipewe mikangano yosafunikira ndikukwaniritsa ziganizo zolimbikitsa ngati kuli kotheka.
Kuteteza Ubwino Wanu Wamalingaliro ndi Ufulu
Kuchita ndi narcissist pankhani zamalamulo abanja kumafuna luso lazamalamulo komanso kulimba mtima. Kupanga dongosolo lolimba lothandizira, kuphatikiza othandizira ndi magulu othandizira omwe amadziwika bwino ndi nkhanza zachipongwe, ndikofunikira kuti mukhalebe osangalala panthawi yonseyi yamilandu.
Kukhazikitsa malire omveka bwino ndikuyika patsogolo kudzisamalira kumathandiza ozunzidwa kuthana ndi kupsinjika ndi zotsatira za kumenyera milandu kwanthawi yayitali. Ndi chitsogozo choyenera, ozunzidwa angathe kuteteza ufulu wawo, kulemekeza ulemu wawo, ndi kuonetsetsa kuti ndondomeko yalamulo ikugwira ntchito mwachilungamo m'malo mopitirizabe kusokoneza.
Mwa kuphatikiza upangiri wazamalamulo waukatswiri ndi kuzindikira za vuto la umunthu wa narcissistic ndi momwe zimakhudzira, anthu omwe akukumana ndi ma narcissists komanso malamulo amatha kuthana ndi zovuta zovutazi mogwira mtima ndikutuluka mwamphamvu.
