Kusamalira (zakudya) kungasinthidwe zinthu zikasintha. Malinga ndi Article 1:401 ya Dutch Civil Code (BW) mutha kuvomereza ndalama zatsopano ndi mnzanu wakale, kapena kupempha khothi kuti lisinthe, koma pokhapokha ngati kusinthako kukutanthauza kuti ndalama zomwe zilipo pano sizikukwaniritsanso miyezo yalamulo.
Chinthu chachikulu chomwe chingachitike: kuchepa kwa ndalama zomwe zimasiya wolipira akadali wokhoza kulipira sizimapangitsa kuti pakhale kuchepetsedwa kokha. Ndipo mpaka ndalama zatsopano zitavomerezedwa kapena kulamulidwa, chikole chomwe chilipo chidzakhalapo mokwanira.
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kodi kusintha kwa zinthu kumawerengedwa bwanji?
Kusintha kulikonse kokhazikika komwe kumakhudza kufunikira kapena kuthekera kolipira. Kumbali ya wolipira izi zikuphatikizapo kutaya ntchito, kuchepa kwakukulu kwa ndalama, udindo watsopano wosamalira mwana wina, kapena kupuma pantchito. Kumbali ya wolandira izi zikuphatikizapo kuyamba ntchito kapena kukwera kwakukulu kwa ndalama.
Kwa ana, kusintha kwa dongosolo la chisamaliro kapena mwana amene wafika msinkhu umene malamulo amasintha ndi chifukwa. Kusintha kwa chisamaliro nthawi zambiri kumanyalanyazidwa, ngakhale kuti kumakhudza mwachindunji kuwerengera pansi pa Rapport Alimentatienormen komwe makhoti amagwiritsa ntchito.
Kuchepetsa ndalama komwe wolipira adayambitsa mwadala, ndipo akanatha kupewa, nthawi zambiri sikunaganiziridwe. Khothi limawerengera momwe amapezera ndalama m'malo mowerengera ndalama zochepa zomwe amapeza.
Kodi kusamalira banja kumatha liti popanda chilolezo cha khoti?
Malinga ndi Nkhani 1:160, kusamalira banja (partneralimentatie) kumatha ndi lamulo pamene wolandirayo akwatiranso, kulembetsa mgwirizano, kapena kukhala ndi mnzake watsopano ngati wokwatira (samenwonen als waren zij gehuwd). Kukakhala ndi moyo wogwirizana kumadalira zenizeni ndipo nthawi zambiri kumakhala mkangano.
Kodi mungavomereze kusintha popanda kupita kukhoti?
Inde, nthawi iliyonse. Lembani mgwirizanowu polemba: ndalama zatsopano, tsiku loyambira komanso ngati kulembetsa kwa pachaka kwa ndalama zomwe zaperekedwa kukupitirira. Makonzedwe osavomerezeka ndi uthenga, kutsatiridwa ndi zaka zolipira pamtengo wosiyana, kumabweretsa mkangano wokhudza ngongole zomwe mgwirizanowu unkayenera kupewa.
Ngati pangano lanu la chisudzulo lili ndi gawo losasintha (niet-wijzigingsbeding), Nkhani 1:159 BW imakukakamizani kutero. Kusintha kwakukulu kokha kotero kuti kukukakamizani ku gawoli sikungavomerezedwe ndi miyezo yanzeru ndi chilungamo kumalola khoti kuti lichotse.
Kodi pempho la khothi limagwira ntchito bwanji?
Mumapereka pempho kukhothi kudzera mwa loya, lomwe ndi lofunikira pamilandu yosamalira. Onse awiri ayenera kupereka zambiri zonse zachuma: mapepala aposachedwa a malipiro, malipoti apachaka, malipoti amisonkho, komanso, kwa ogwira ntchito okha, maakaunti apachaka.
Khothi limakhazikitsa tsiku loyambira ndalama zatsopano ndipo limatha kuzibweza m'mbuyo, nthawi zambiri mpaka tsiku lofunsira. Ngati wolipirayo adalipira ndalama zambiri pakadali pano, nthawi zambiri amakana kubweza chifukwa ndalamazo zidagwiritsidwa kale ntchito pa ndalama zogulira, kotero amatumiza nkhani mwachangu.
N’chifukwa chiyani simuyenera kungosiya kulipira?
Chifukwa lamulo lomwe lilipo limakhalabe logwira ntchito mpaka litasinthidwa. Ndalama zomwe zatsala zimasonkhanitsidwa ndipo zitha kutengedwa ndi National Maintenance Collection Agency (Landelijk Bureau Inning Onderhoudsbijdragen, LBIO) kapena kudzera mu malipiro. Ikani kaye, kenako sinthani pambuyo pake.
Kodi muyenera kuyang'ana chiyani ngati gulu lolipira?
- Kodi kusintha kwa ndalama zomwe mumapeza kapena ndalama zomwe mumawononga kumakhalapo, ndipo kodi mungathe kuzilemba ndi mapepala olipira kapena maakaunti?
- Kodi munayambitsa nokha kutsika kwa ndalama, kapena zinali zosapeŵeka?
- Kodi pangano lanu la chisudzulo lili ndi gawo losasintha pansi pa Article 1:159 BW?
- Kodi mnzanu wakale tsopano akukhala limodzi, wakwatiranso kapena ali mu mgwirizano wolembetsedwa (Nkhani 1:160 BW)?
- Kodi mukulipirabe ndalama zomwe zilipo panopa pamene fomu yofunsira ikuyembekezeredwa?
Kodi muyenera kuyang'ana chiyani ngati gulu lolandira?
- Kodi ndalama za wolipira zakwera, kapena ndalama za ana zakwera ndi ukalamba?
- Kodi dongosolo la chisamaliro lasintha, kotero kuti tsopano muli ndi ndalama zambiri?
- Kodi indexation ya pachaka ikugwiritsidwa ntchito pa 1 Januwale iliyonse?
- Kodi malipiro ali mu akaunti yobwezera, kotero kuti kusonkhanitsa ndalama za LBIO ndi njira ina?
- Kodi ndalama zomwe mumapeza kapena momwe moyo wanu ulili zasintha m'njira yomwe wolipira angadalire?
Kodi tingakuchitireni chiyani powerengeranso kukonza?
Timasamalira milandu yokhudza kusamalira ana monga gawo la ntchito yathu yosamalira mabanja.
- Timawerengeranso kukonza pansi pa Rapport Alimentatienormen yomwe ilipo pano.
- Timawunikanso pangano lanu kuti tipeze gawo losasintha ndikuwona ngati likukugwiranibe.
- Timalemba mgwirizano wolembedwa wosintha zinthu, kuphatikizapo tsiku loyambira ndi kulembedwa kwa ndalama.
- Timapereka pempholi kukhoti kuti tisinthe ndalama zothandizira, kapena kuyankha chimodzi.
- Timalangiza za ngongole zobwezedwa ndi kusonkhanitsa LBIO.
Kuti mudziwe zambiri, onani buku lathu lotsogolera za alimony ku Netherlands komanso nkhani yathu yonena za nthawi yomwe kukonza kumatha.
Chidule
- Kusamalira kungasinthidwe mwa mgwirizano, kapena ndi khoti motsatira Nkhani 1:401 BW pambuyo pa kusintha koyenera kwa zinthu.
- Lamulo limaletsa kusamalira mwamuna kapena mkazi pa ukwati wina, mgwirizano wolembetsedwa kapena kukhala limodzi ngati kuti mwakwatirana (Nkhani 1:160 BW).
- Chigamulo chosasintha chimakumangani pokhapokha ngati kukukakamizani kuchita zimenezo sikungakhale kovomerezeka (Nkhani 1:159 BW).
- Khothi likhoza kubweza nthawi yobwezera ndalama zatsopano, nthawi zambiri mpaka tsiku lofunsira, kotero nthawi yake ndi yofunika.
- Musasiye kapena kuchepetsa malipiro anu nokha: lamulo lomwe lilipo likugwirabe ntchito kudzera mu LBIO.
MAFUNSO OFUNSIDWA KAWIRIKAWIRI
Kodi kukonza zinthu kungachepe ngati ntchito yanga itandithera?
Kawirikawiri, inde, ngati kutayika kwa ndalama kumakhala kokhalitsa ndipo simukanatha kupeweratu. Khotilo limawerengeranso motsatira Nkhani 1:401 BW; ngati munayambitsa kutayika nokha, lingawerengere malinga ndi momwe mumapezera ndalama.
Kodi ndikufunika loya kuti ndisinthe chisamaliro?
Inde, pa pempho la khothi. Pempho loti ndalama zosamalira zisinthe liyenera kuperekedwa ndi loya. Ngati inu ndi mnzanu wakale mukugwirizana, mutha kuphunzitsa loya mmodzi pamodzi.
Kodi ndalama zatsopano zimayamba kugwiritsidwa ntchito kuyambira liti?
Kuyambira tsiku lomwe khoti likhazikitsa. Nthawi zambiri tsiku limenelo ndi limene pempho limakhala, koma khoti lili ndi ufulu wosankha, choncho limapereka chikalata mwamsanga kusinthako kukachitika.