Kusudzulana mwachangu ku Netherlands: momwe mungasudzulane mwachangu

Njira yachangu kwambiri yosudzulana ku Netherlands ndi pempho logwirizana (gemeenschappelijk verzoek) ndi makonzedwe onse omwe avomerezedwa pasadakhale; njira imeneyo ingatenge milungu isanu ndi umodzi yokha. Ngati mmodzi wa inu apereka fomu yekha, mnzanu winayo ali ndi milungu isanu ndi umodzi yoti ayankhe, ndipo chisudzulo chomwe chikutsutsidwa nthawi zambiri chimatenga miyezi ingapo, nthawi zina kupitirira chaka chimodzi.

Lamulo la ku Dutch lili ndi chifukwa chimodzi chothetsera ukwati: ukwati watha mosatha (duurzame ontwrichting), motsatira Nkhani 1:151 ya Dutch Civil Code (BW). Palibe nthawi yodikira ndipo palibe chifukwa chotsimikizira cholakwika. Mukapereka limodzi, khothi silipempha umboni wa kusweka kwa ukwati (Nkhani 1:154 BW).

Kodi pempho logwirizana ndi logwirizana limasiyana bwanji ndi liwiro?

Pempho logwirizana nthawi zambiri limasankhidwa pa mapepala mkati mwa milungu ingapo. Pempho lokhala ndi mbali imodzi (eenzijdig verzoek) liyenera kuperekedwa koyamba kwa mnzanu ndi bailiff, yemwe ali ndi milungu isanu ndi umodzi yoti apereke chitetezo.

Ndi pempho logwirizana mumapereka chikalata chimodzi, chomwe nthawi zambiri chimakonzedwa ndi loya mmodzi kapena mkhalapakati wa nonse awiri. Ngati muli ndi ana aang'ono ndipo dongosolo la kulera ana kapena kukambirana ndi ana kumafuna kuti pakhale, khoti lidzapitirizabe kumvetsera. Ndi pempho lokhala ndi mbali imodzi, kumvetsera kumakhala kosavuta, ndipo mfundo iliyonse yomwe simukugwirizana imawonjezera nthawi.

Kodi muyenera kuvomereza chiyani musanapereke chikalata?

Gwirizanani kaye pa nkhani ya ana, nyumba, penshoni ndi kusamalira. Nkhani zinayizi zimayambitsa kuchedwa kwambiri, osati chisudzulo chokha.

Ngati muli ndi ana aang'ono, dongosolo lolera ana (ouderschapsplan) liyenera kuperekedwa ku pempholi. Limafotokoza momwe mungagawire chisamaliro, momwe mumapangira zisankho, momwe mumalankhulirana komanso zomwe aliyense wa inu amathandizira pa ndalamazo. Ndikoyenera kugwirizana pa chisamaliro cha ana azaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 21 nthawi imodzi.

Makonzedwe azachuma amalowa mu pangano la chisudzulo (echtscheidingsconvenant). Sonkhanitsani zambiri zachuma kamodzi, poyamba: malipoti akubanki, chikalata cha ngongole ya nyumba, mtengo wa WOZ wa nyumbayo ndi zidziwitso za penshoni kuchokera ku mijnpensioenoverzicht.nl.

Kodi loya mmodzi kapena mkhalapakati wa nonse awiri amakhala ndi tanthauzo liti?

Loya mmodzi kapena mkhalapakati wa nonse awiri ndiye njira yaifupi kwambiri, bola ngati pali mgwirizano wogwirizana pakati panu. Katswiri mmodzi amasonkhanitsa zambiri, kulemba pangano limodzi ndi dongosolo la kulera ana, ndikulemba pempho limodzi.

Sikoyenera pamene pakhala nkhanza, pamene mmodzi wa inu sakudziwa bwino za ndalama, kapena pamene chikhulupiriro chasweka mpaka pano moti mgwirizano sungatheke. Kenako aliyense wa inu amafunikira loya wake, ndipo milungu yowonjezerayo yagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino.

Kodi mumatani kuti mikangano isachedwetse zinthu?

Yang'anani kwambiri pa mafunso othandiza omwe khoti liyenera kuyankha. Malinga ndi Nkhani 1:151 BW, khoti silisankha yemwe ali ndi mlandu, kotero mikangano yokhudza cholakwika imawonjezera ndalama popanda kusintha zotsatira.

Khoti limayang'ana komwe ana azikhala, ndalama zolipirira kusamalira komanso momwe katundu ndi penshoni zimagawidwira. Pamene kulankhulana kuli kovuta, nthawi zambiri kuyimira milandu kumakhala kofulumira kuposa milandu. Mgwirizano wochepa umachepetsa zomwe khoti liyenera kusankha.

Kodi chigamulo cha khoti chikachitika n’chiyani?

Chisudzulo chanu chimakhala chomaliza pokhapokha ngati chisankho chalembedwa mu kaundula wa chikhalidwe cha anthu (ma registers van de burgerlijke stand). Malinga ndi Article 1:163 BW, kulembetsako kuyenera kuchitika mkati mwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, apo ayi chisankhocho sichingagwire ntchito ndipo muyenera kuyambanso.

Kawirikawiri mumayembekezera kuti miyezi itatu ya apilo ithe musanalembetse. Ngati palibe aliyense wa inu amene akufuna apilo, aliyense akhoza kusaina chikalata chovomereza (akte van berusting), ndipo chisankhocho chikhoza kulembedwa nthawi yomweyo.

Kodi muyenera kuyang'ana chiyani musanapereke?

Kuchedwa kwakukulu kumabwera chifukwa cha zikalata zomwe sizikupezeka komanso mafunso otseguka, osati kuchokera kukhothi.

• Sankhani pempho logwirizana kapena logwirizana poyamba.
• Lembani ndondomeko yolerera ana ngati muli ndi ana osakwana zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu.
• Sonkhanitsani malipoti a banki, chikalata cha ngongole ya nyumba, mtengo wa WOZ ndi chidule cha penshoni.
• Funsani wobwereketsa ngongole ya nyumba ngati mmodzi wa inu angathe kutenga ngongoleyo.
• Gwirizanani ndi kusamalira mkazi kapena mwana, kuphatikizapo ana azaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 21.
• Konzani kulembetsa chisankho mkati mwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, ndi kulengeza kuti mwavomereza ngati n'kotheka.

Kodi tingakuchitireni chiyani ngati banja lanu latha msanga?

Ntchito yathu yothetsa ukwati yafotokozedwa patsamba lathu la loya wa zisudzo . Tikhoza kukhala ngati loya wogwirizana kwa nonse awiri kapena kulangiza mmodzi wa inu:

• Timalemba pempho logwirizana, pangano la chisudzulo ndi dongosolo la kulera ana.
• Timalemba mndandanda wazinthu zachuma zomwe mukufuna pamsonkhano woyamba.
• Timawerengera kusamalira mwana ndi mkazi kapena mwamuna.
• Timalemba zikalata zovomereza ndi kukonza zolembetsa mkati mwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi.

Chidule

• Chifukwa chokhacho chothetsera ukwati ndi chakuti ukwati watha mosatha; cholakwika sichili ndi gawo lililonse.
• Pempho logwirizana ndi zonse zomwe zavomerezedwa ndiye njira yachangu kwambiri ndipo lingatenge pafupifupi milungu isanu ndi umodzi.
• Ngati pempho lanu lili ndi mbali imodzi, mnzanu ali ndi milungu isanu ndi umodzi yoti ayankhe, ndipo chisudzulo chomwe chikutsutsidwa chimatenga miyezi ingapo.
• Ndondomeko yolera ana ndi yofunika ngati muli ndi ana aang'ono.
• Lembetsani chisankhocho mkati mwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi; kulengeza kuti mwavomereza kumakupatsani mwayi wochita zimenezo popanda kudikira nthawi yopempha apilo.

MAFUNSO OFUNSIDWA KAWIRIKAWIRI